http://fortheotherwoman.com/blog Thu, 18 Feb 2010 18:35:04 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en Well I guess it was certainly too good to be true. We thought we'd gotten past all the roller coaster. But BQ reared her ugly head again and have set a bad course for my husband's daughter, Em, my step daughter. Somehow BQ has managed to completely turn Em against ... http://fortheotherwoman.com/blog/?p=54 Em hasn't talked to my husband since x'mas. According to BQ it's because she feels like my husband treats her second fiddle to the her sister. But read her text messages again. They don't say that. They say something completely different. Is there a child psychologist in the house. http://fortheotherwoman.com/blog/?p=53 When my husband and his ex were divorcing, BQ a self-proclaimed atheist suddenly found religion and became an avid Catholic. What was previously scorned and mocked by her became all consuming for her and a requirement that her children take part as well via classes and involvement with the church. The ... http://fortheotherwoman.com/blog/?p=48 I realized during this past week that perhaps I have turned into that hard-ass woman that I've despised all my life. As I've gotten older and more focused on my career, I have lost some of that softer edge that I used to have while growing up. While I profess ... http://fortheotherwoman.com/blog/?p=46 Recently my mother-in-laws sister was in town. As I zoned in and out of listening to conversations, I learned that mum-in-law's sister had a bitter divorce when she was younger and counsels other woman to handle it maturely as she did. My husband's ex had in fact called her when ... http://fortheotherwoman.com/blog/?p=43 name: Sarah topic: I love my married man. Why won't he stay with me? He is MUCH BETTER than my husband. Does anyone else feel like this? http://fortheotherwoman.com/blog/?p=41 I may have shared previously that my husband's ex (known as BQ) is...well...insane. But that's beside the point. The real tragedy here is that BQ has transferring her issues and psychoses to her daughter, my step daughter, who is twelve years old and a semingly normal girl on the ... http://fortheotherwoman.com/blog/?p=36 From time to time, by following the sexual and emotional escapades of married celebrities, we are reminded of how common and frequent extra-marital affairs are. So much so that latest statistics indicate that in this country 45-55% of all married women and 50-60% of all married men had an affair ... http://fortheotherwoman.com/blog/?p=33 This is an excerpt taken from Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen: Reasons for Extramarital Affairs * Inability to cope with cultural or ethnic differences. * Disappointment that one partner hasn’t grown in the same ways. * Unrealistic expectations about marriage. * Sexual ... http://fortheotherwoman.com/blog/?p=31 I am amazed that the 2010 calendar for the kids was approved without all hell breaking loose. Very unlike last year when interventions from the children's legal representative had to take place and hours upon hours were wasted nuancing the time that my husband could have with his own children ... http://fortheotherwoman.com/blog/?p=29