Couples entering into a relationship should do so with open hearts and minds, and be ready to welcome the ‘contract’ of a relationship – that they will each treasure, protect and nurture the love they have found with each other. When that ‘contract’ is broken by either of them for whatever reason (the most common being that the stresses and demands of life caused both to lose focus on each other), the relationship falls prey to a heart that seeks fulfillment elsewhere. A less than nurtured relationship leads to marital affairs – the other woman does not ‘entrap’ the man into an affair.

Women who become involved with married men are often misunderstood and stereotyped as gold digging and power seeking, or on the flip side, weak and insecure. These women are accused of infringing upon the sanctity of marriage to “steal” away another woman’s husband. While the life changing experience that the wives go through is very real, the generalized portrayal of the other woman is a sharp contrast to the one that many choose to embrace for the wives as being victimized and blind-sided by their husband’s choices.

This website seeks to uncover the true persona of the other woman and to celebrate her independence, self-sufficiency, intellect and warmth. It is a safe and trusting forum for the other woman to express who she truly is, listen to what others have to say and join the conversation. Here you can speak freely and honestly about your experiences and its highs and lows. Here you will find understanding and support.